Dating play hard to get
I have talked to a few guys, but when it comes to meeting I get cold feet and opt to talk some more at which point they figure I am NOT serious and vanish.
I have used the honest aproach (always) and told them exactly what I just said here.
Other guys were presented with a group of profiles of different women, designed so that one was clearly the most attractive and would always be chosen.
Unbeknownst to the guys, the woman in both conditions was really an experimental confederate.
I don't play games, but I have experienced some guys who play games. This attitude is just too funny.....vvvvv...thank you for clarifying that openhorizons...
I can only speak for myself here: I don't play hard to get. :)) :)) So OP..interpretation of your post is that since we are online dating means something is wrong with us and we are apparently so desperate that we should just throw ourselves at any man who contacts us??
however; i have begun to wonder why do some of these women feel as though it is ok to play hard to get, or feel the need to "be Chased" while trying to meet someone online? And guys shouldn't judge all women because of their experiences with other women. Maybe....maybe...doesn't actually like you that much and so...she deletes her account, moves home and changes her name....she's not really playing hard to get.....
A high percentage of women are not going to dig you. It's not even games all the time, just not expressing how you truly feel. LOL So OP..interpretation of your post is that since we are online dating means something is wrong with us and we are apparently so desperate that we should just throw ourselves at any man who contacts us?? The younger women that play hard to get and explicitly make profiles so they can show their friends and laugh at the responses of men are not worth your time.
For the second study, which was published in 2010, researchers at the University of Virginia and Harvard University recruited 47 female undergrads, and told them that their Facebook profiles would be viewed by students at other universities.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. If they did, you would be fvcking a different woman twice a week. Like right now, I've been talking to this dude for 3 months. In other words, I wouldn't lose sleep if I can't date a woman with a such a maturity level.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... He asked me if I was interested in him, and if I planned on us visiting each other, and told me that he wanted to continue our conversations. Most women have a hard time grasping this but from a guys point of view (as it has been pointed out already in this thread) it is a numbers game.In reality, these men's profiles had been designed by the researchers, and no one had really seen the women's Facebook profiles.Sure enough, the women liked the men more when they thought the men had rated them highest, compared to when they thought the men had rated them average.
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. I told him I was very interested, would love to visit, and we continued talking for about a week. I'm really hurt over it and I don't get it, but oh well.